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Are you ready to discover who you are and what you want out of BDSM? Is it time for you to take the steps to finding a healthy, fulfilling D/s relationship? Is your current relationship off track and in need of some adjustments so it can be strengthened and deepened?

As your Lifestyle coach, I'll work with you to get to the truth of who you really are, what you really need, and how to get those needs met. You'll also learn how to attract the relationships you want and strengthen the ones you have.



  • Communicate openly and truthfully.
  • Focus on and resolve present-day issues and challenges.
  • Commit energy and attention to future desires and goals.
  • Be willing to change your beliefs and patterns if they no longer serve you.


  • Listen closely to you without judgment, respond to what I hear and ask powerful, probing questions.
  • Encourage you to open your mind to new ideas and insights that will enable you to take action.
  • Work with you to develop a sound Action Plan.
  • Make a "coach request" when appropriate that will challenge you to stretch yourself and move you closer to your goal.


I offer my services on a monthly retainer, which includes:

  • Session prep questions to get you focused before each session.
  • Three 50-minute telephone sessions each month.
  • Responses to emails. (For additional support.)
  • Limited personal phone access. (For the occasional "emergency" support.)

We'll work together for as long as you're getting the results you want from coaching. With regard to a timeframe, some clients achieve their goals in just a couple of months, and others utilize coaching for years. This may either be continuously, or on and off as the need arises, similar to using a personal trainer.


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