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What Is a Coaching Group?

A Coaching Group is an opportunity for you to participate with other individuals in a group setting that is structured around a common interest.

During a group session you will:

  • Receive individual coaching from Aranea.
  • Share your successes and challenges with like-minded people.
  • Give and receive support and encouragement within the group.
  • Strengthen your weaknesses.
  • Recognize and honor your limits.
  • Engage in enjoyable, meaningful discussions.

How Does Group Coaching Work?

Coaching Groups are conducted over the telephone using Teleconferencing technology called a bridge line. You'll receive a bridge line phone number to call at the appointed day and time and you'll be immediately connected to your group. You don't need special equipment, just a telephone. Lifestyle Coaching Groups can connect you with participants from all over the world or you can get a few friends together and all join the same group.

Benefits of Group Coaching:

  • Save time by attending from the convenience of your own home or office.
  • Protect your privacy with anonymity you won't find in face-to-face groups.
  • Learn from the successes and disappointments of others in the Lifestyle.
  • Create a sense of community that will continue outside of the group sessions.
  • Affordable if you're on a tight budget.

Aranea's Lifestyle Groups meet three (3) times per month for 75 minutes. The calls are scheduled on the same day of each week and at the same time of the day.


Here is a list of Aranea's Lifestyle Coaching Groups. New groups are always forming! Contact Aranea for a FREE consultation and make sure the group you are interested in is right for you!


Single Submissive Females:

Be ready to share what's on your mind and in your heart, and ask the important questions that lead to creating a meaningful relationship with your ideal Dominant: Who am I? What do I want? How do I get what I want?

Limit: 6 women


Single Submissive Males:

Share the unique challenges of being a submissive man in a vanilla world. Discover what type of BDSM relationship will meet your needs and how to acquire it. Learn how to embrace your submissive nature with pride.

Limit: 6 men


Female submissives and slaves in a relationship:

Do you find it challenging being a submissive woman in a world that reveres independence and autonomy? Is the support of your non-Lifestyle friends ineffective or even non-existent? Work with other women who understand the joys and difficulties of a D/s relationship. Help each other grow in your service to your Dominant. Learn skills that will keep you balanced as you juggle between the vanilla and D/s worlds.

Limit: 6 women


Male submissives and slaves in a relationship:

Do you find yourself pressured by society to "play a role" when out in public with your Dominant? Are you finding it difficult to snap into the proper headspace once you're in a place where you feel safe to express who you really are. Share these difficulties with other men who "serve" in a world where men are expected to lead. Learn tips and strategies from other men who are faced with the same challenges.

Limit: 6 men


Newly Released Submissives and Slaves. (Any gender)

The end of a D/s relationship is a personal crisis and one of the greatest loss events in your life. Do you find that you served another so well that now you don't know how to serve yourself? Without your Dominant you may feel adrift, directionless, even unworthy. Don't go through this excruciating process alone. Join with others who share your feelings and understand what it is you're going through. Work together to become whole once again.

Limit: 4 submissives or slaves of any gender


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